Teenage Pregnancy

Pregnancies in nearly all the cases is a happy news and joyful moment but in certain cases especially teenage pregnancies it is a case of grievous concern. These unplanned pregnancies can create a huge issue for teenage girls who are physically mentally and financially unprepared to handle a baby. Nature has designed our bodies in such a way that girls can get pregnant as early as the age of 13, this age is physically and emotionally a very fragile time as the body is not prepared to handle the complication of pregnancy. In - case you do get pregnant by mistake, such situations are not welcomed with whole heartiness. It is a tough situation and you have to be courageous to face and deal with it. Giving birth to a baby is not easy and bringing up the baby is the toughest task for a women. Some teens out of recklessness even decide to give birth not realizing the consequences of becoming a parent.

 If you fear you are pregnant first make sure of it take a home pregnancy test. The common indications of pregnancy are fatigue, nausea, tenderness in the breast, frequent urination and the most prominent indication is missing your menstrual cycle date. Once the home test is positive go to the nearest health center and get it confirmed as at times home test can be erroneous.

If your pregnancy is confirmed talk to someone about it, I know it is not easy to trust at this stage as you are worried about your parent’s reaction but you got to speak to a trust worthy person. Try and talk to an elder person who is more matured to help you out in this situation. If you think you can speak to your parents, then trust me nothing is better they will yell and be angry but they are your parents and will help you find a solution to it.

Before speaking to your parents or your friend inform your partner about the pregnancy, as he is the father and needs to be informed. If he is levelheaded and matured he will support you and your decision full - fledged. But please speak to your parents I know it is not easy as in most cases the parents are not even aware that you have been physically active but you need to find the courage to do so. They will be your best guide in this situation.

After that consult a doctor and study all the options available to you. Think rationally about the pros and cons and with your head not your heart. This needs to be a practical solution not an emotional one as bringing up the baby is going to be your responsibility entirely. If you are thinking of an abortion, get the right medical help to see if at all an abortion is possible. Then get yourself prepared emotionally for this traumatic experience. Knowing whatever you are doing is for your and your baby's best.

In-case your partner is ready to support and marry you then it is the best option for both of you bring up the baby together like a family. In all cases it will be your decision whether it is abortion, or giving the baby for adoption or single parenting or getting married. Whatever it is, it is your decision and your choice. Just think ten times before you take n decision.

Find out of all the help you can get with the medical bills your accommodation your expenses. Pick up a decent place to stay and start working to save as much as possible for the baby. Get yourself mentally prepared and ready to handle not only yourself but your baby too. Teenage pregnancies can have a few complications because of the age make sure you choose a good health practitioner and go for your checkups regularly. Because you are a young mother you need to take care of your nutrition with extra effort make sure you are eating well and good nutritious food. Take care it is an uphill task but if you have taken the first step then go ahead with strength.